Воооот, это актуально по поводу споров про эти несчастные 50 оттенков и abuse и прочий бред:
Because a lot of stuff I find hot in fiction I don’t find hot in real life. For example, unsafe BDSM practices, dubcon situations, or being sexually unsafe in general? (like barebacking/not using condoms, birth control, dental dams, and so on) Unf. In real life? No way in seven hells would I even think that’s okay, because it’s not sexually safe and can and often does lead to mentally/emotionally unsafe situations.
What I feel like is people don’t understand is what’s written is different for everyone. Some people associate themselves more with the dominant character and may imagine themselves as them, and some associate themselves as the submissive (or if it’s a more equal relationship, either).
Первую строчку просто в камне выбить
Потому что ну блин, часто смотреть/читать про healthy relatonship скучно, хочется всякого такого, чтоб взбодриться - и что? Это ж фикшн?